Today I'd like to briefly address a very popular topic - nudity, sexuality, and body positivity as an aesthetic tool to express yourself. We all know Instagram is full of tan bums and lace bras, and I'm glad it is. As this, on one hand, can be a very bad influence (some may take it as promoting 'perfection', eating disorders, sexualizing women, etc.), on the other hand it is exactly what we need. The 'thick' look which is so popular now in my opinion promotes self love and acceptance, and I think it's great to share that on social media. And not only that trend, there are many others which share the same purpose. What I know for certain is it is ok to love yourself. It is ok to feel comfortable in your own skin no matter your weight or color. We all bleed red, and that's what matters. Because in the end, all that matters is that we aspire to share love, encourage self confidence, and accept our flaws. That is what makes true happiness. Acceptance.
So girls: post photos in your lace bra you feel so good in, share your stories, and DON'T BE AFRAID OF HATE. Hate is a very powerful emotion, and if you choose to take it as such, it can be extremely positive. It can give you motivation to aspire towards sharing positivity even more, so don't mind the 'ew' or 'you should wear a bigger dress to hide that fat', and turn them into love. You choose what words you let in, and which actions define you. Let that be love, acceptance, and positivity.
Take care babes, and go nuts with photos!